Biscuit of The Day

Got into some deep thought about the negative and positive charges tonight. When one drags their feet across the carpet does their body take on a charge? Then when one comes in contact with the opposite charge does that energy get transferred? Is this transfer a balancing act?
Maybe I am going out on a limb here but when a person's positive energy gets to low do they naturally seek a transfer to balance out? Is this why so many are seeking a pick up by using energy drinks, drugs and all kinds of stimulants that are ready for our use at every street corner?
All these things work but they are not a long  lived sources of energy. I found a stimulant that has ignited my energy levels. The stimulant I speak of is service. I have found that when I forget about myself and serve others my energy levels increases. I find more passion and more energy in service then any other stimulant I have ever partaken of. And believe me I have tried a lot of them. My energy level increases when I am teaching others. Is this a transfer of energy? When my charge gets high (new things learned) I have the desire to teach what I have learned (transfer of energy by teaching).
The more I think of this kind of stuff the more I realize that I as a person am governed under the same laws and principles as the elements of the earth. It really makes sense to me after I read Genesis 2:7 I was created from the dust of the ground. So that means I am under the same governing principles as the very ground I stand on. So do I have to adhere to the same laws the earth does when it comes to energy? What happens when I do not transfer the energy I receive and hog it for my self? I become depressed . Oh don't worry William we have a drug to take care of that also. Learn and share or receive and give. Is that what will snap me out of this sleep that so easily besets me?

Thank you for reading

William Henderson

William Henderson  

Biscuit of The Day

What kind of baggage am I dragging around these days? Have you ever felt that you can't seem to break free from emotions or fears or even a way of life that you despise?  Most times we cannot break free unless we find what is keeping us from moving forward. I have found that most times it is doubt and fear that keep people from moving forward. James  Allen wrote "The will to do springs from the knowledge that we can do. Doubt and fear are the great enemies of knowledge, and he who encourages them, who does not slay them, thwarts himself at every step.


This short sentence has changed my life. Do not for even one second allow the doubt and fear to creep in. I truly believe the atonement cannot have full effect in my life if I have doubt and fear. My higher power is waiting to open up doors if I just have unwavering faith. I have found that the following is true. 


1. God wants to bless me with abundance because with out it how can I serve the masses without abundance? Can one give from an empty cup? 


2. I was created in the image of God and I am  considered his child. Does a child want to be like his father? I truly am a creator and all I need to do is find what I want ask my higher power for direction and go in faith. 


3. Love is the shield that will protect me from the arrows of hate and the spears of anger that will be thrown at me while I am in the world creating something great. Love can melt all heart like the suns who rays soften the coldest clay.( Og Mandino). 


4. Insane Bravery. What can fight against That? Nothing? 


This is my purpose. To bring to light the hidden things of darkness. There is darkness all around us and I will expose it for what it is. It is the wall that has been stopping so many from becoming what they have dreamed to become. And for me the darkness is doubt and fear. God is not Doubt and he is not fear. So Doubt Not Fear Not. 


Thank you for reading


William Henderson 

Biscuit of The Day

I got the opportunity to listen to a coaching call with Dave Blanchard of the Og Mandino Group. What a perfect way to end the night.

Imagine for a minute that you have a big block of clay in your hands. This is the clay you have been given from God when you came to this earth. A lot of time I find myself looking at others clay and wanting to have theirs instead of mine. Have you ever looked at someone that is successful and thought to your self, wow I wish I had their money a family like theirs and the recognition they have? I have done this more than I feel comfortable to admit. 

Some of us are losing site of what we have been given because our focus is not on the clay we are holding in our hands. Its no wonder we are not receiving more from our Higher Power. I know there is times in my life where I have wondered why can't I just have a little bit of a break for this boring mundane life I have been living. Dave said that we need to find joy in the journey. This life will have joy and its inseparable partner sorrow. The tough thing to handle is the joy during the sorrow part. It is always easy to look back on the sorrow and be grateful for what it has taught you. 

How do I find joy in the journey when I am  going through the rocky shores of life? How can I find joy when I am up to my neck in the muck? Have you ever had so much despair you can't even focus on the small things around you let alone finding joy in the journey? 

First things first. What is causing the despair? I truly know that God does not give out despair. So lets think about who is the giver of despair. The giver of despair operates in a low energy field. So If I where to raise my energy level would that disconnect him from my mind? Yes it will. Here are a few things that can help one raise their energy level. 

1. Stop Drinking sodas. The sugar will make you crash

2. Stop eating Fast Food? Processed foods are poison. ( the proof of that is FAT AMERICA)

3. Start eating fresh food as much as possible and drink plenty of water. I truly believe that most disease is preventable. Life style is the cause for the majority of health problems.

4 Exercise. Scream at a tree, walk, ride a bike, roller blade, hike, run, lift weights just move your body. When you come home from a hard day, overcome the desire to plop down on the couch and watch the TV. Take the kids out side and find joy in the journey. 

5. Everything positive comes form God. And everything negative comes from the opposing force. So with that being said, kick out the negative thoughts from your mind it does not belong. Would you put pornography into you mind? No! And you should not let negative thoughts in either. When a negative thought comes kick it out by saying that is not from God not going there today. Use High energy to remove it.    

The Clay we have been given is so much easier to manipulate when we clear our minds and live in the present. If you are having trouble being present focus vividly on everything around you and it will pull you out of your mind. Look at the of the sky and wonder why it is so blue. Focus on the lines in the road look and the numbers on a licence plate driving by. Also look at the people around you and focus on them and how you can help them and then you will be pulled into the here and now. Nothing can be accomplished unless you are present.

Thank You for reading

William Henderson
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Don't forget to stop and take a look around at the things that are important. 


About two days ago my wife helped me realize that I am always in work mode and I am never really home. It made me realize that I have been missing some really important opportunities to connect with my family. Tonight I went to my daughters music recital at her school and I realized that I have a very talented girl living under the same roof as I do. Crazy where did she come from? Did I miss something while I was stuck at work 24 hours a day? 
I was not at work tonight I was at the recital ( Truly at the recital). I had so much fun and I got to see who she really is. She was the most beautiful talented girl I have ever seen and I could not help but smile bigger then I have ever smiled in my whole life. I felt so connected to her and my love for her increased 100 times. 


Do you ever get so caught up in providing for your family that you miss all the good stuff? Do you ever come home so tired that you just don't want to participate in the family day to day stuff? If you don't think there is any good stuff going on, stop for a few minutes and watch closely. You will be surprised what you see. I have got so caught up in the thick of thin things that I have missed the small stuff that passes by in the blink of an eye. Now I don't want to blink because I am afraid to miss something. 


So how do I break free form this cycle that so easily over takes me? Like Steven Covey said do the first things first. 
1. Recognizing that this is a problem is the first step to breaking free. Kirk Duncan calls it the Wall. 
2. Now that I know this is a problem I need to be checking in with myself every-once in  a while. James Allen wrote: Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace. 
So if this is true then I can build the relationship with my family that I have always wanted or I can really destroy my family with weapons I forge. 


What kind of weapons do I Forge that will destroy my family? 
Weapon 1: Do I really listen to my wife or children or am I always thinking about work? 
Weapon 2: When I see the negative in a family member do I point it out? 
Weapon 3: Do I see a messy room or undone chores as bothersome? 
Weapon 4: Am I so caught up in needing to be right that I will make someone feel small to show that I am right? 


What tools can I fashion to shield my family from these weapons? 
Tool 1: Steven Covey wrote that we need to seek first to understand and then be understood. He also said that understanding to the soul is what air is to the body. Are you really truly listening? 


Tool 2: Og Mandino wrote that are love can soften the hardest hearts like the sun who's ray soften the coldest clay. Point out what you love about your family members as much as you can everyday and they will become what you see.


Tool 3: Again Steven Covey said 1+1= more then two. Synergy Find the messy room as an opportunity to be with your child and work together towards a common goal. Then they will trust that when they get stuck or behind they and rely on you to help then find the way. 


Tool 4: David Blanchard one of my super hero's "said just let it go, do not tare someone down in the name of being right JUST LET IT GO". It is OK for someone to have a different truth then we do. Truth is perception and perception is King of all. Just love people for who they really are children of God. 


I am a work in progress and these are some of the things that I have learned while I have been on this earth. And I have learned them because I have been willing to look inside myself and be OK with the flaws that I have found. These flaws give me something to work on with my Higher Power. He knows the answers so I want him to be my 1+1= more then 2 (Synergy to the 10th power).   


I hope you enjoyed this blog please comment. 


William Henderson  






  

Biscuit of The Day

Do you want to move yourself or you family up to the next level? Have you ever felt that it is impossible to do so?

 Well I learned something really cool today that just might help you. Kirk Duncan for 3 Key Elements said we need to take the negative statements we hear and write them down. Then take them and write the opposite of them. For example, have you ever told yourself that you are you are stupid? Write on a piece of paper that you are smart. Then use these opposites to right your positive declarations for your family and your self. 

Tonight as a family we put together the Henderson Family Declaration statement. We declared to the opposition that we think only good things about each other and where we stand. Just as the this nation declared where it stands through its Declaration of Independence. We the people of the Henderson Family declare who we are and where we stand.   

Do you have a Declaration statement for you self and your family? If you don't, get one,  if you have problems putting one together call me and I can teach your family how to put one together for a small fee. 

Thank you for reading. 

William Henderson  

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"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." -- Gandhi 


Wow it starts with me. Sometimes that is a hard pill to swallow. So if  I need to be the change, does that mean that I need to be the type of person that would get along with the person that I am not getting along with? Pretty cool,  Gandhi was ahead of his time for sure. 


So if you are single and you can imagine the type of person you would like to be with. The first quest that you might want to ask yourself is, Are you the type of person that would attract the type of person you are looking for?


If you are married you could ask yourself are you continuing to be the type of person that your spouse wants to be with? If you are not sure ask your spouse what they want and become the change you want to see in your relationship. 

Thanks for reading. 

William Henderson 

Biscuit of The Day

Why is it so hard to set a schedule and keep it? How often do you let others change your schedule? This has been the battle for me for as long as I can remember. I have found that the reason it has been a struggle is because I am resistant to structure. When you were a kid did you always get into trouble? Did it drive you crazy when someone told you what to do? If you answered yes to these questions then you are most likely resistant to structure.

Isn't it crazy that I am resistant to the very thing that will make me successful? The thing that is even crazier is that I get angry because everything seems to be such a struggle. You could say I gave myself a self inflicted gun shot wound on this one.  Hard pill to swallow when I look at it this way. You mean I struggle because of choices I make?  Struggle will come no matter what. And some times it will come for no reason. So why add more than you need ? Find a way to get out of the fly by the seat of your pants mode and strap yourself in so you can keep control of the vehicle when the roads get bumpy.

 

 Thank you for reading 

William Henderson