Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Biscuit of The Day

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." -- Gandhi 


Wow it starts with me. Sometimes that is a hard pill to swallow. So if  I need to be the change, does that mean that I need to be the type of person that would get along with the person that I am not getting along with? Pretty cool,  Gandhi was ahead of his time for sure. 


So if you are single and you can imagine the type of person you would like to be with. The first quest that you might want to ask yourself is, Are you the type of person that would attract the type of person you are looking for?


If you are married you could ask yourself are you continuing to be the type of person that your spouse wants to be with? If you are not sure ask your spouse what they want and become the change you want to see in your relationship. 




Thanks for reading. 


William Henderson 

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Biscuit of The Day

Why is it so hard to set a schedule and keep it? How often do you let others change your schedule? This has been the battle for me for as long as I can remember. I have found that the reason it has been a struggle is because I am resistant to structure. When you were a kid did you always get into trouble? Did it drive you crazy when someone told you what to do? If you answered yes to these questions then you are most likely resistant to structure.
Isn't it crazy that I am resistant to the very thing that will make me successful? The thing that is even crazier is that I get angry because everything seems to be such a struggle. You could say I gave myself a self inflicted gun shot wound on this one.  Hard pill to swallow when I look at it this way. You mean I struggle because of choices I make?  Struggle will come no matter what. And some times it will come for no reason. So why add more than you need ? Find a way to get out of the fly by the seat of your pants mode and strap yourself in so you can keep control of the vehicle when the roads get bumpy.
 

 Thank you for reading 

William Henderson